Clothes are used to
cover the body; it also protects one from the cold or heat. Clothes are a
ne’mat of Allah.
Deenul-Islaam has
given us permission to wear beautiful clothing. However one must not be
wasteful and extravagant. We must not wear clothes to show-off and it should
not be such clothes which are the styles of other people (various fashion).
It has been stated
in a Hadith that Rasulullah Sallalalu Alaihi Wasalam said, “Eat, drink, dress,
give Sadqah, but do not waste and do not do it to show-off.” However in today’s
times many wrong methods have entered in the dressing of Muslim women which we
will point out:
The first wrong is
that women wear clothes which are very see-through, it is such that whether she
is wearing clothing or not it is all the same.
Once Hazrat Ayesha
Radhiallahu anha niece came to visit her and she was wearing a very see-through
head gear. Hazrat Ayesha Radhiallahu anha tore it off her and gave her a
thicker one to wear.
Rasulullah
Sallalalu Alaihi Wasalam said, “After me two groups of jahannamis will be born.
I will not see them. One will be walking around with whips like the tails of
oxen and they will hit people with it. The second group will be women, they
will be dressed yet they will be naked. They will tempt and allure men towards
them and they will incline towards men. Their heads will be like the humps of
camels. These women will not enter Jannah, nor will they get the fragrance of
Jannah.” What a grave warning, forget Jannah they will not even smell the
fragrance of Jannah.
The various ways of
wearing one’s clothes inappropriately is, the clothes are very thin and
see-through, the woman is dressed very skimpily that is, she is wearing very
little clothing and most of her body is exposed eg. She wears short sleeves,
sleeveless, short tops where her stomach and back is exposed, skirts and
dresses that are very short or above the knee and she exposes her legs, her
clothes are so tight that the shape of her body can be seen. All these types of
clothing are the style and ways of the non-Muslim women. To wear such clothing
is a very severe sin. If one dresses in this manner then she will be imitating
the unbelieving woman. Rasulullah Sallalalu Alaihi Wasalam said, “One who
imitates a nation is one of them.”
Another way of
dressing is that we wear clothes to show-off our wealth and status. Rasulullah
Sallalalu Alaihi Wasalam said, “Whoever wore clothes to show-off, Allah will
dress them with clothes of disgrace on the day of Qiyamah.” Another evil is the
buying and sewing of clothing unnecessarily ie. One does not have a need for
extra clothes. As soon as a new style is invented by the dress designers, they
must have it at all costs. They will go to the extreme of borrowing money and
purchasing these clothes. This is the sin of extravagance. We should be content
with a few sets of clothes that are made according to the Shariat. The type of
clothing which will protect one from the heat and cold. It is very bad to
burden one’s husband for new clothes all the time.
Another evil is
that many women have a cupboard full of clothing yet she feels she is wearing
the same clothes all the time. Therefore she demands new more fashionable
clothes to show her status.
If her husband does
not fulfil her demand she buys it without his consent by using his money (this
money could have been kept aside by him for another more important need.) Be
warned we must never do this.
A burqa is the best
way for a woman to cover herself fully from top to toe. Nowadays a burqa is
decorated with ribbons and lace. The manner in which it is worn will attract
those who had no intention of looking at her and now it will attract them.
Tawbah, tawbah, is this called a burqa? This is not a burqa but it is a
dressing to attract others. In some countries the burqa is worn so short that
their shalwar which is very colourful is exposed. Many women expose their hands
which, in some cases are decorated with mehndi and jewellery. Is this called
purdah, where people get attracted to a person?
In Islam great
emphasis is laid on purdah and it is given much importance. Nowadays many women
are leaving the beautiful dressing of purdah due to either ignorance or being
unmindful (negligent) of the laws of purdah and the Ahadith with regard to its
importance. Therefore it will be appropriate to discuss the Masalahs and the
Ahadith concerning the purdah. May Allah give us Tawfeeq to fully understand
and practise.
MASALA: A woman is
commanded to cover her entire body from her head to her toes. It is not
permissible for a woman to expose herself to strange men. Women who are very
old may expose only their face, their hands up to the wrists and their feet up
to the ankles. It will not be permissible for her to expose any other part of
her body to strange men.
MASALA: A woman is
not allowed to expose even a strand of her hair to strange men. (Non-Mahram)
that person whom she can marry.
MASALA: A woman’s
back and stomach is not allowed to be exposed even to those men who are her
Mahrams (One who cannot marry her, e.g. uncles, brothers, father, grand-father,
son, grand-son, etc.). If she exposes these parts then she has committed a
great sin.
MASALA: A woman
should not expose her body from her navel to above the knee to another woman.
MASALA: A woman
should not allow her body parts to be touched by other females, not her mother
nor her sister.
A woman should not
stand at places where strangers can see her. Rasulullah Sallalalu Alaihi
Wasalam said, “May Allah curse the one who sees or shows herself.” Today many
women are careless in the matter of purdah, they do not take precaution in
keeping the curtains down or closing doors, they stand by uncovered windows to
view or peep at others outside (Inquisitive). Many women frequent the malls,
parks and public places without hijab or purdah. In some cases if she is
covered she exposes her face to the shopkeepers in order to check or fit
certain items. From the Hadith above we learn that such women are accursed.
Muslim women of
today take pride in exhibiting themselves in public places and thus think they
are being progressive by imitating the western woman, thus becoming great
sinners. To watch movies and television is a great sin in itself and a far
greater sin is when a Muslim woman attends these public places. The sin is
doubled on her. (This would apply to men too but we are discussing women)
The Muslim woman of
today have regarded the pure lifestyle of the “Umahatul-Mu’mineen (mothers of
the believers),” the wives of Rasulullah Sallalalu Alaihi Wasalam, the daughters of Nabi Sallalalu Alaihi
Wasalam, the Sahabiyat Radhiallahu anhuma, we have regarded them as backwards
and have left their pure ways and have adopted the styles and fashion of the
womenfolk of the enemies of Islaam. The Muslim parents of today are dressing
their little daughters with figure hugging dresses and leggings which are the
invention of the kuffaar and we have become satisfied that, with this type of
covering we think our daughters legs are covered but in fact their legs are
still exposed because the shape of it can be seen by all.
When our daughters
grow up then they look for partners who are also fashionable and enjoy the
western style of dressing, so our daughters continue dressing in this shameful
style even after they are married.
Women were told to
make purdah from blind men but in today’s era women frequent all public places
like the malls, parks, fairs, etc. without covering their hair or faces. They
wear tight fitting clothes in all public places and show themselves off to everyone
without a care. Inna-lillahi-wa-inna-ilaihi-rajioon.
Women are
half-brained (Naaqisatul Aql) imperfect brained but they have made men who are
supposed to be full brained, they have made them love the ways of the Western
styles and fashions thus they are hurling their daughters, daughters-in-law,
wives, nieces, etc. into the blazing fire of Jahannam. Hazrat Akbar Ilahabadi Rahmatullah alaih said,
“Yesterday, when I
saw a few women without purdah.
Akbar got stuck in
the ground, in shame of the nation.
I asked them, what
happened to your purdah (veil)?
They said, “It has
fallen upon the brains of our men (intelligence).”
Al
Balagh Karachi
Raihan
Ali Hashimi