Hazrat Maulana Maseehullah Saheb (Rahimahullah) says,
“Take a lesson from a young girl when she gets married.”
The world accepts that women are Sinf-e-Nazuk “(The weaker
sex)” and they are delicate.
Women are sensitive. A young girl for
eighteen to twenty years enjoyed being with her parents, fighting
and playing with her siblings, etc. however when she receives a
proposal and accepts and says,
“Yes! I am prepared to marry this boy.”
Then Hazrat Maseehullah (Rahimahullah) says,
“She tears herself away from her family and comfort of her parents
home like silk being pulled out of thorns.”
The very same girl in her one “Yes!” she hands over her honour,
her total izzat (respect), she hands it to her husband. The same
girl who would never lower her garment will do so for her
husband.
She will become such a person that despite having
given up so much she will now try to keep her husband happy all
the time. What a great sacrifice a woman...